I dated a guy for all of like 2 months and I swear it’s like a fatal attraction thing. He was toxic since day one and I would try to end things but he would always manipulate, guilt trip, etc. me into staying. Then when I tried to hold him accountable for a part of his life that HE was the abuser in that HE brought up all on his own, he ended it, and I refused to go back. He left like all of 3 things here and is basically harassing me about it. I feel like he either really just wants me to keep it so he has an excuse to keep reaching out OR he wants to hurt me somehow. Because he refuses to pick it up, refuses to let someone else drop it off for me, refuses to let people come with me to drop it off, refuses to let cops come with me to drop it off, etc. So I started to tell him things like “unless were planning you getting your stuff, leave me alone” (and told him - only at a police station, because that’s what cops advised). OR I’ve even straight up told him to stop speaking to me and he’ll just keep going. Or he’ll go away for like a week and then go back to it. He threatens to call cops, threatens to call CPS, threatens to get me arrested, threatens to reach out to a man who has physically harmed my kids and I, all kinds of crazy shit. The breaking point was when he claimed I threw something at his face (which NEVER happened) and I felt he did that because he wanted to be able to use it to try to get my kids taken. So I told him I’d have one of my friends drop his stuff off to him and AGAIN explained that I want no contact. I really want nothing to do with him. I feel like he’s obsessed with me and it makes me feel physically sick.