Throwing a party right after birth

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So my oldest son (who’s also autistic) is turning 13 in March 😭 I will be about a month postpartum at that time. I don’t want to skip his birthday or miss it but I’m at a loss on what to do for him because I don’t want people in my house, don’t wanna travel and idk if I’ll want to bring the baby around people just yet. He likes to play with other kids but doesn’t like to run around and get sweaty. We tried the whole experience thing instead of gifts last year and he still expected a birthday party with friends and presents 😑😑 I’m literally stuck on what to do especially since it’s a milestone birthday. UGHHH 😭