I’ve been having a low sex drive for a while now not sure if it’s the birth control but recently I’ve been feeling into it, or atleast been trying to do it more often with hopes it’ll come back to normal. Anyways, my partner doesn’t know how to have foreplay with me well how he tries it just doesn’t feel sexy. Like if I don’t make myself want to have sexy time he would literally not be able to make me horny. I’m bored with the same thing over and over and I’m tired of always being the one to try and be out the box. All he wants to do is lie on the bed and get head and stroke. Which doesn’t last long and I don’t mind that part. But it’s like the point of sex is for 90% pleasure for him and 10% pleasure for me. I don’t know how to tell him or discuss this with him without him getting offended. Im literally at the point where I’d have the urge to be naughty but when I go to have sex with him it’s like yea lets just get this over with. 🙄