So, i'm 17, currently in college...and not ready to have sex right now at all. For a little background i'm quite an insecure person who worries alot about appearance but i absolutely adore my boyfriend. However, recently he's been making more and more kind of sex related jokes and i laugh a little at them but i have told him previously the topic makes me uncomfortable. And whenever he makes a joke about doing something and i turn it down he genuinely looks disappointed.

My main concern is that this will make me not good enough for him and that he might find someone else who is willing. I love my boyfriend but with all the worries about being insecure, pregnancy and just having a general fear of having sex, it just makes me uncomfortable with him joking about it.

I want to talk to him about my concerns but i find it hard to as i don't feel likw he would properly understand and with the worry resting on me that i'm not good enough for him because of it, i don't know what else to do.

Phew that needed to be written 🙌