LONG POST WARNING!!! So my man and I met on tinder. I know. I had just gotten out of a mentally abusive marriage and just wanted to have fun. Long story short, he lived in Rome, was coming to my city to visit family for a few weeks in the summer, and was just looking for some fun. No strings, no commitment, PERFECT! He messaged me and he is Hella fine, so I decided to message him back. I definitely didn't focus in on just him, I was single for the first time in 10 years and wanted some fun. Long story short, we connected in a way I never expected or experienced. We texted and video chatted and we both just felt insanely connected. He ended up asking me if he could bring me on a real date when he got to Montreal. Of course I said yes, but I told him since we live so far apart, we both need to have zero expectations. After we met, and spent a few weeks together, it was bigger than us. A few months later I visited him in Rome, and he ended up coming here for Christmas and then I went back to see him afterwards. He ended up moving back to Montreal and in with me before the second summer together. We were both very happy and have been ever since. A real romantic story. Now, when we lived across the ocean from each other, we agreed to give us a try, but we would have a sexually open relationship, I mean come on, we both have needs. The one rule was that we had to be 100% completely honest about it with each other. Now I know what your thinking, but it worked for both of us at the time. I took advantage. I saw another guy, we fooled around, I was 100% honest, and it was ok. He took advantage also, and was honest with me as well, and it seemed to be working. Anyways, before he moved here, he had an incident with an ex. Some girl who had been friends with his ex began to send him flirting messages. He told her he wasn't interested. Things continued to escalate and she began aggressive and threatening, going on about hurting his ex if he didn't see her. Apparently everything got sorted out, police were involved but in the end it was alright. When he told me about it, I had this feeling that something was wrong. He said he hadn't seen or spoken to his ex since before we even met and it was just really out of the blue. He said he contacted his ex when it happened just to make sure she knew what was said and was ok. So fast forward a year, we are happily living together (no more open relationship) things are going wonderfully, super in love. Im currently 11 weeks pregnant with his first baby, and he is over the moon. But ever since this incident happened, its been in the back of my mind. One day, while I was using his phone (yes we both use each others phone, and are both very aware of it) I saw he had a message. So I checked and it was from his ex. I was so confused, and of course my curiosity got the better of me so I started reading. It turns out he had been in contact with her right up until he moved back. Im not sure if they ever met but they had many conversations where she was clearly telling him she would move for him and wanted to come with him and he was saying no. However, he never mentioned me at all. He was however still messaging her as if they spoke on a daily basis. I haven't said anything, as he was very adamant about not seeing her since before we met, and since he's moved here (been about 10 months) he hasn't contacted her at all, and is extremely open with me about anything else. Soooo I'm not sure if I should just let this go, or confront it. Like I said, im pregnant and we have been so happy since. Advice?