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So I have depression anxiety and adhd. Well my husband thinks I have mild autism like my son because he sees me doing things like him but doesn’t say anything.. Sometimes I always thought meybe I have some in me but the doctor diagnosed me when I was a kid years ago with adhd I know well I have that but idk how to get tested for autism and bipolar disorder and ocd I think meybe I have ocd idk if u would call it that but I have this habit of this thing that if we go in public and come home nobody can get on the bed with those cloths on or anywhere they have to take it off it drives me insane if they touch the bed with those cloths on I feel like it’s germs on it and if someone does it gets to my skin with it I hate it.. here’s the thing there is no doctor here that will diagnose me unless I pay 2,000$ which is insane. And I’m trying to see if my dr will send me somewhere but I can’t pay a psychologist that amount of money… also kinda embarrassed to ask the doctor I be thinking she probably think I’m lieing.. 😭🤦🏻‍♀️ I also say bipolar because I go off sometimes then I’m happy it’s werid. And the doctor already said adhd can cause depression and anxiety... idk what to do!! Help me out on advice.