I’m 11 weeks pregnant and every time I go to my moms house it stinks of weed, my moms 57 and never smoked a day in her life. My older brother who still lives rent free with my mom smokes tobacco and weed in his room, I’m not only worried about my moms chest but will this affect me? I don’t want to stop visiting my mom, but I’m worried this will have a negative impact on me and my mom.

She keeps telling him not to smoke in the house but he does not respect or listen to her, I keep telling her to sell the house and move in with me but she doesn’t want to make him rent as he’s already in debt. If I even try getting involved she goes mad and says it’s not my business so I don’t know what to do. Any advice or guidance would be great, nervous or bringing a newborn to her house with the current situation.😔

Just to add; me and my husband are not smokers, we’re both annoyed by the situation but at a loss as for what to do.