Why do women hate me?

All of my life I’ve had problems with friendships with women. Even as a child, girls were mean to me. My best friends were always boys. In high school I had three girlfriends who weren’t the nicest to me. One of them constantly told me I was from the ghetto because I lived on the poorer side of town. One of them tried to unalive herself by drinking a whole bottle of NyQuil and I of course called 911 and her parents. But then that made everyone turn on me because I got her in trouble. In college, I just didn’t make any girl friends. Many friends with guys. Now I’m 32, married, with kids. I have two girl friends, and again they’re not very nice to me. One of them only talks about herself, and if I bring myself up, she will revert the conversation back to her. She’s very whiny and wants me to validate her feelings constantly like I’m her therapist. The other one competes with me in every way. If I do anything, she will try to as well, and she gets really upset if she can’t. She also has to trash-talk anything good in my life. For example, my husband got a promotion at work. I mentioned it in passing, not bragging or anything, and she said “well I guess if you want to deal with him being out of the house more, cool.” I think she was jealous because her and her husband struggle a lot financially. He works at the Dollar Tree and she doesn’t work. But she prefers that because he’s home a lot. She gets really jealous that I can afford things she can’t, and she will bad talk them. We got my son a new bike for Christmas, and she said she won’t let her children have bikes until they’re older because they’re dangerous, and she sent me an article about it. I’ve just never had these issues with guy friends. One of my good friends is male, we’ve been platonic friends for almost 12 years, we talk about stupid shit and laugh and send funny memes, if something happy happens in my life he congratulates me and I do the same, he asks about my kids, I’ve been really sick this week and he is the only one who asked how I was feeling. My girl friends did not. I just want to know why? Why can I not make a solid female friend? Is there something wrong with me? I try so hard. I build them up. I hype them up. Compliment them. Am there for them always, always respond to texts. But it truly feels like women just hate me.