Towards interracial couples? Black men with white/latino/Asian or white men with black women?

I have a poc older friend of mine who quit talking to her son for 3 years because he was dating a white girl and she praised me because my husband happens to be white.

Her reasoning is this: she said black woman have the most disadvantages so a white man choosing her as his wife is respectful and beneficial, while black men should marry their woman because they are less likely to marry a poc and this is a disservice to black woman who want to to date in their race and who want to get married.

Thoughts?