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Okay so I need some advice. I've gotten off from women using solely their mouth in the past (no help from the vibrator), with and without hand help. It took a while to even be able to, and it's been minimal success, but I have.

Now, I'm with the love of my life and I want so badly for her to get me off that way, without needing a vibrator (which I HAVE to have to get off, which disheartens me a lot as it is). I've tried to, and l've come really close, but I can never get her to the right spot. She listens when I guide her, but I just can't get there, even if I'm in "control", and it's so frustrating!!! That and sometimes it takes FOREVER for me to get off, even with hand and vibrator. It's like it builds up to that peak, but I can't get the crash to happen. I get frustrated and that just makes it so much worse.

The sexual compatibility and energy between is ALWAYS fireworks and magic, so it's not anything to do with lack of attraction or communication or anything like that. It's all me and my complicated body.

How do I uncomplicated myself??

How do I get out of my own head when it takes forever? WHY does it take forever (especially if l'm SUPER turned on)? just want to be normal and I'm not. 🥺🥺

Help. Pleeeeasse.