Leap 2….HELP

Second time mom here and I’m going CRAZY!!!! My baby is going through leap 2 with 5 days remaining according to Wonder Weeks but I don’t know how much more of this I can take. My LO used to be a decent sleeper taking naps anywhere from 1-2 hours (I would cap at 2). But lately he’s been catnapping for 27-40 minutes. And super cranky. Today I had to do contact napping so he could get some sleep. But I got literally nothing done/no time for myself. The worst part is the nights. From 5pm it’s a living hell trying to get him to sleep. He wants to constantly be on the boob but then gets full and fussy. Then if I manage to get him to fall asleep he wakes as soon as I try to put him down. And inevitably spits up because he overate. So I have to change him. Then the cycle repeats. Because I’m breastfeeding and my LO refuses the pacifier, my husband is of literally no help. I know there’s an end in sight but right now it doesn’t feel like it. I don’t remember it being this hard with my first one. HELP!