problems decluttering my home help!!!

I have been going through my house trying to declutter & im stumped on what to do with certain things.

My aunt makes me a quilt every year sometimes 2 times a year, she loves making them, but theyre ugly for 1 & 2 theyre not really my type of blanket, i prefer soft cozy ones over quilted ones so I never even use them. Iv got a stacks full in my closet never really used cluttering my home. Even in my kid’s closet she makes them a character blanket each year of whatever theyre into that year & then again at christmas + she made them like 8 for baby shower& when they were born. so they also got stacks, & they also prefer using soft blankets like me, but I do use theirs sometimes when they are sick ill lay them over their sheets as a protecter incase they throe up or anything but anyway sorry for rant about all of that what would you do with them? how am i supposed to declutter with 20 blankets i dont need & more to come bc i cant tell her to stop making them and i feel bad to get rid of sometthing she made for me…

next stop, the kitchen I have some nice platters & serving dishes but i never get to use them, i never get the chance to host any family gatherings, its always my mom or grandma, but i want to be able to someday and keep thinking i’ll eventually use it but it just sits in cabinet unused cluttering up my home ..

in my bathroom- i think ill use my many many scents of bath & body works most only used a handful of times but i tell myself i need them?? why.. even have old scents and perfumes from high school or prom just to smell bc certain smells reminf you of a time in your life??? i know im weird.. help!!

I also have a drawer full of maternity clothes, I want to be pregnant again and i want to be able to wear them if i do get pregnant some arnt even worn bc i bought them & miscarried, been trying so long idk if its ever gunna happen fo rme but its too hard to just get rid of them, its like telling myself yea its not gunna happen.. Then i have a spare room where I plan to put a baby somedsy with baby items that I wouldny want to buy again, so Iv just been saving for my next child if that ever happens, plus all of my kids clothes they have outgrown, i did narrow it down though to only clothes I absolutely lovef on them & things i would want the next child to wear if they can.

anyways thats where i am on my decluttering journey can anyone give me any advice tips that may help?