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I’m currently pregnant with my second child and a feeling just came over me thinkin my daughter would be mad at me for having another baby before she’s even 3 I told my husband and he told me if I don’t want our child I can abort and I can have the baby and give it to him so I won’t feel like my daughter is being neglected and it turned into an argument, am I wrong for having that feeling? I was only looking for reassurance and it turned into him making it about him and our new baby, it’s starting to make me feel like I shouldn’t say anything else at all about how im feeling because it would turn into a argument but when I don’t say anything he gets upset as well, I’m only a few weeks and although I am excited I haven’t gotten to enjoy this pregnancy because im always stressed about something, also my kids have different dads 😔

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Your daughter will be so excited to have a younger sibling! They’ll be the best of friends. You really have nothing to worry about. Your feelings are valid. Just be careful telling certain things to certain people though, make sure to convey why you’re feeling that way. I was nervous about my son, not knowing how he would handle having a little brother. At first he wanted to leave him at the hospital lol, but as soon as we got home, he was stuck to his side like glue. Anytime “his baby” cried he was letting me know. They’re 3&5 and still stuck like glue. They fight like cats & dogs sometimes but they have a beautiful friendship. I understand your anxiety because I had it too but you’ll see a beautiful thing unfold mama. Be patient with yourself and remember there is enough of you to go around.