Holiday with lads but not me

ciara

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half and last summer he went on his graduation trip with his friends on a lads holiday, I am a year below him so I will be graduating this year and going on a holiday with my friends. I have a wedding In Lanzarote in December and I mentioned it to him months ago and told him ask his parents can he go as his moms very strict when he will be 19years of age by then and I will be 18. He never asked his parents and said “I’ll have to ask can I go” so that gives me the impression that if he’s allowed to go he will go , but then last week he booked a trip to Paris with 2 of his friends, and then I said last night “don’t forget to ask because we will be booking it this week while it’s cheaper” he then says I don’t have the money for everything and I said but I told you this ages ago before you booked Paris even? And he said ya but we might be going on a lads holiday during the summer with 15/20 of us going. It was then that I was fairly mad as he has the money to do these things but when I mentioned the wedding/holiday months ago to him and now he hears other people are doing stuff which don’t include me he will go but not with me somewhere when I asked months before any of this. He then said I spend a lot of time with you anyways in a week we spend one evening together usually a Saturday from 7pm onwards until the next Saturday day again he calls that “I spend alot of time with you anyways” what do I do? I texted him saying it’s so disrespectful and if he does decide he can have the money for a holiday that was only brought up a few days again and not for a holiday that was brought up months ago that I’m done with him. Is this right ? Or what should I do ?