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Being rude to wait staff or having anything negative to say about someone with disabilities.
Immediate no
I think this could be considered controversial.
What is something you one hundred percent do not or would not tolerate in a relationship? Like, it’s an immediate no, immediate goodbye, adios. (Aside from abuse of any form).
I saw this question asked on an old Reddit post and the answers were interesting.
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Drugs, being rude to people who work in any area of Heathcare or hospitality industry. Not being respectful to people with disabilities or body shame any shape or sizes of any gender.
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For me weed on the rare occasion Is okay but other drugs is a turn off for me for sure.
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Alcohol not that fussy but I don’t drink so it don’t bother me luckily friends and fiancé only drink beers. Drugs is a major no for me even weed! I’m like a drug dog I can smell and sniff drugs from a mile away 😂
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Drugs & alcohol are big ones for me too. Casual beers/wine is fine. Can’t do hard liquor
Not able to have a conversation or be called out on problematic behavior. Everyone has flaws, but I couldn’t be with someone who refused to confront that when challenged
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Yep you’re very correct
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Yeah 100%. Accountability is huge. A person can overcome almost anything if they have self awareness and can take accountability for their mistakes.
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That’s it. Thank you for phrasing this so well. I definitely have my flaws, and my best relationships are with folks who have support me on unlearning and learning.
A liberal 😂
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I get that. I said I wouldn’t date a Republican. I’m just wondering why this is their only “big no” on dating someone.
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Just as someone posted above that they wouldn’t date a Republican, they most likely just don’t want to date outside of their political party as usually your political party represents majority of your values or beliefs.
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Why?
If you remotely think Andrew Tate has a point about anything. 🖕🏾🖕🏾🖕🏾Men who act as if cleaning and cooking are things only women do.Men who cannot aim in the toilet to save their lives and don’t clean it.Men who think they can talk to you like they lost their damn mind.Men who lack the basics of hygieneMen who are obnoxious AFMen with big egos.
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“Men who think they can talk to you like they lost their damn minds” lmaooooo this one right here
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My husband has a friend that likes Andrew Tate. There’s a reason they don’t talk. Lmao he is a moron. And running his mouth got him caught. That was the funniest thing I saw
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Yes to the first one! My husband and I constantly make fun of him 😂
1. Uprightness. You can’t be uptight, I don’t like that. Like chill out. 2. I need space and time for myself3. I don’t fuck around with conservatives. 4. No ableism. No racism. No homophobia no transphobia5. This is weird but I look at professions. Would never date a cop, lawyer, someone is real estate. Shady shady shady
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I don’t know how we’re 2 1/2 years since George Floyd, and people are still bewildered when it’s pointed out that there’s a problem with police and policing on both a macro and personal level.
Hell, I’m surprised my friend own field hasn’t been named yet. I love lots of people who do social services work, but there’s also hella problems too. I wouldn’t blame a single person for noping out if they’ve had bad experiences.
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The source is the system and its laws that are rooted in racism. Choosing to uphold that system is racism and an act of violence against BIPOC. Also, Hispanic isnt a race. Hispanic and Latinx people are more than capable of racism, and colorism and embarassingly enough many Hispanic/Latinx cultures are pretty notorious for both racism and colorism.
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I dont think its that weird tbh I agree. Id never date a cop either, for many reasons but I cant get down with someone who chooses to participate in a racist system. Couldnt date a fire fighter, lawyer, or Military either
I’m trying to think of things that wouldn’t be your typical “bad breath” or something -when someone shows TOO MUCH interest in me. -gamers - has a child or children - stays friends with all his ex’s/ past sexual partners - obsessed with social media/never looks up from phone- cringey behaviour on social media like commenting on porn stars or nearly naked pictures of women like “🔥🔥🔥” or “I wanna wife you up”
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