Hey guys ( just ranting, but I’d really like your guys feed back 😭) Im pregnant with my second baby and I haven’t really wrap my head around the thought that I’m actually going to be a mom of two, my fiancé is a few years older then me and we recently took on the responsibility of permanently housing his other three children, so now I’m going to me a mom of 5, (I’m still very young) I’ve always wanted a big family and a husband and I am extremely happy, but all we do is work it’s kind of hard for us to find time or a date night or to really just have one on one time with each other due to the kids, are sex life is extremely wonderful but our date life isn’t so much now before he use to take me on vacations at least once or twice a month and we’d go on dates once a week but now due to kids here with us we work extremely hard day in and day out what are some good date night ideas? Also i love that my husband is clingy and wants to me under me all the time ( he has been extremely good to me since fining out were pregnant) but how do I tell him I would like a hour or two by myself out the house away from him and the kids with out hurting his feelings or making him think I’m messing around ( I’ve never gave him a reason not to trust me but that how he feels ig when it’s not the case and he knows I love him) it’s also so frustrating because now I feel like the house is always dirty because of the keys or something is broken even after I clean and clean it just gets dirty all over again😭 how do you guys keep the house clean with multiples? I also smoke marijuana and I know it’s bad but has anyone smoked in early pregnancy and baby turned out fine? , ( I know this post is probably alll over the place but I’m just ranting and really want feed back) sorryyy