So annoyed & just need to vent

I’m so burnt out on being the parent who does EVERYTHING. I initiate when we need groceries, diapers, to clean, to bathe the kids, etc. my husband gets so much time to himself because all he does is fucking play games. The kids follow me around all the time & I love them to death but I need me time. All my husband has done this afternoon is play games. I initiate doing the laundry, cooking, cleaning up after dinner, etc. when my husband can see I’m flustered he will help sometimes but does a shit job. Last night I cleaned up the house, cooked, make the kids plates, got drinks, and when we were done eating my husband got up to go to the shower. He took the youngest in the shower with him I guess to give me relief? But I literally cleaned up everything after dinner. Then my little one pooped in the shower and he says he cleaned it up. There was still shit all over his hurt and he handed him to me so I could dress him while he got dressed. Today I showered and found dried poop still in the tub & it’s on part of the shower curtain. I told him about it & he laughed and said “well I tried and got most of it” and didn’t even fucking clean the rest and here I am doing it. I’m also 25 weeks pregnant and so worn out doing so much stuff. Like damn… quit living in a pig pen and help. If he does help, it’s literally cause I ask for it… so annoyed