Intimacy

Ok so I’m being super vulnerable here that’s why I’m anonymous. I never want to have sex anymore. It is painful for me to even think about (figuratively not actually). My husband is lucky enough if it’s once a month. It started when we had our first 3 years ago and since our second it’s been even worse. I have no idea what’s wrong with me. I feel broken. Im either tired or I just don’t feel like it. At first he brushed it off but now he makes comments to me every once in a while like “well it’s not like we have sex anyway” and things of the sort. I don’t even know what to do or where to start because I feel awful and also would like to eventually get back to wanting it again.