Is this rape?

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So twice now I've woken up in pain and almost throwing up while pushing my husband off me. Both times I was laying on my side and his penis was in my ass. It was between 3 and 4 in the morning both times. And as soon as I start yelling at him and telling him that's not ok, he tells me it's my fault because while I was sleeping I moved my ass closer to him. Mind you I've always slept on my side in the fetal position. Or he'll tell me that I must've been having a weird dream because I was making noise and put my hand near his penis in my sleep. So apparently me doing that gives him the ok to start having sex with me when I wasn't even awake? I'm just confused and I feel gross and like it's my fault

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La

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Yes that’s rape and he doesn’t respect you. He’s your husband but that doesn’t give him a right to assault you. I’m so sorry this happened to you 😔 praying that you heal from this and that you are safe.

Kr

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Yeah if you said no and he kept doing it it’s rape don’t listen to the people that say if you’re married, you can’t get raped by your spouse. If you don’t like it, you talk to him about it he was doing it and you talk to no one kept going. It’s rape

Kr

Kr • Feb 14, 2023
I would file for divorce if he’s doing this for you he will do it to your kids in the future think about it. He’s doing it to somebody loves

Ka

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You can’t consent (give permission) when you are asleep. What he did is illegal. Rape is penetration of your body by the other person’s body parts or using an object without your permission.

Li

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Imagine it happening to someone close to you, a friend or a mother. If your mother told you that your father forced himself on her in her sleep would you blame her?? No, if you wouldn’t blame others for it then you shouldn’t be blaming yourself!! Stay strong and safe

Ky

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Ka

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Wondering how you are doing now and whether you have found relief from these assaults? Wishing you and your children well and that you find a place you can be safe and secure. 💞