Too tight?

Question

I’m 19 and I’ve tried fingering myself but it doesn’t feel that good to me? Plus I can only fit one finger. When I masturbate I just play with my clit and squirt. Should I try stretching my hole out more ? Cause I’m a virgin who’s high key terrified

Answer

You discovered the big “secret”. Your main pleasure organ is your clitoris. It has only one job - sexual pleasure leading to orgasms. Your vagina is mainly for making and delivering babies. If sex-ed did not suck so much, you should have learned this.
Your vagina is mostly numb and devoid of nerve endings to protect you from trauma during child birth, menstruation, sex, and infections. Most nerve endings are around the vaginal opening. So feeling almost nothing deeper inside, or even at the entrance is not unusual at all.
Even during sex with a partner, the majority of women need stimulation to their clitoris to orgasm.
Should you stretch your vagina? It is unlikely to be necessary. As you learn to relax and become fully aroused and wet, things will likely change. It may also be your hymen that is causing the difficulty. If you do decide to try stretching, a set of vaginal dilators with a water based lubricant should be used. Vaginal dilators are smooth and come in a set gradually increasing in size.

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