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What do I do idk what else to think of! I’m stressed I’m lost. My 6 year old daughter won’t stop having accidents at school. Every week they call me she pees on herself I’ve done everything. I’ve already took her to the doctors her dad & I have talked to her. Idk what to do? How can I help her ? What can I do? No matter what I try it doesn’t work I’m overwhelmed 😖

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I do have some follow up questions. I have a degree in child development and have dealt with all sorts over the years. My first question is was she hundred percent potty trained before this. When did it start? If it’s a sudden change in behaviour then we can usually put it down to something has caused the sudden change in behaviour. Children don’t always know how to communicate big problems and deal with them. So it can manifest itself in things like accidents. It can be as simple as my daughter was too scared to use to toilet at school hence why she was wetting herself.

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Put her in child diapers or pull-ups

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Is the bathroom at school clean? Does she feel comfortable using it? This is a problem at my 6 year olds school. He often holds it in because it’s so gross.
Otherwise, I’d second Lucie’s questions. Any big changes? Does she have any pain while urinating? Get along well with the teacher?

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If she was previously potty trained
If be concerned because it’s sometimes a sign of SA 
I’d talk to her and make sure that’s not happening

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First of all I would be cautious to.jot stress her about it as this can make things worse. Make sure she nows it is ok and that you will figure things out to make it better with her help. There might be something at school that is triggering this events. Give here child diapers or something that will make her more comfortable when it is happening. Also I would suggest to record when it happend and if there is any pattern related to it. It can be something on that day or day before. You might also want to record how often she is visiting toilet in general as she might wait with it until she can't hold any more and it is too late to reach the toilet (especiallywhen she is javeing nice time doing something and she doesn't want to stop/pause it)?

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