We may be in debt for the rest of our life but I'm okay with that
My 17 year old son is in remissions from cancer. It took a toll on all of us emotionally. Watching him lose control. Isolate himself from his friends. Having to care for his toiletries when he lost control of his bowels and bladder. Watching him ask for us to let him die. Taking out loan after loan. Getting credit cards we had no business getting to pay for his treatment. Selling our car. Our home. My daughter went without a birthday party for a few years. Every penny went for his treatment. We will most likely live the rest of our lives in debt. And for my son to be told he's cancer free.... It was worth it and me and my husband would do that shit all over again.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.