Time to let go ??

Question

My boyfriends mother is BEYOND deisrespectful to me and I've never once disrespected her. We've been together for almost 3 years and I've always but my tongue. Last night I went on a rant on my Facebook not meaning to post just to vent. I was saying she's miserable , rude , etc I accidentally posted it was up for all of 30 seconds and my boyfriend called me and broke up with me saying I disrespected his family so I said what about how she disrespects me ! He said nothing , he said he's never calling me again and he doesn't love me anymore an maybe I should find someone who can deal with my "ratchetness". So I said fine ! I felt bad for going about the situation how I did so I apologized to her about that not about how I feel ! She ignored it and he hasn't called or texted me all day. What should I do ? I'm not gonna kiss ass because I was in my feelings ! Almost 3 years, it was bound to come out one day !

Answer

Seem like he didn't love you to begin with. Something like my last relationship for two years. If he can't understand a little mistake or even take the time to talk to his mother about the situation and how you felt about it then he didn't care to begin with. I wouldn't let it get to you to much sweetie someone else is out there that will treat you 100 times better than he did and won't just leave you over a tiny mistake. He shoulda stopped the disrespectfulness with his mother a long time ago. How cruel and wrong! Good luck to you I will pray for you hunny.

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You honestly didn't lose out on anything. Quite frankly he doesn't sound like much of a man. If he considered you his woman and truly love you he would not tolerate his mother disrespecting. So what you ranted? That made him break up with you and say he doesn't love you? Sounds like a bunch of bullshit and he sounds pathetic. I say move on ...

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Nothing to feel bad about. You were venting and that's good. He should understand where you are coming from. I have the same issue with my boyfriend and his family but I always confront him about what bothers me just so he knows how I feel. If he doesn't understand how you felt he doesn't care enough to be around. I don't think you did anything wrong. Don't give in.

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That is why you NEVER even think about posting drama on FB.  I have had my fair share of in-law problems. My mother in law hated me, one of my husbands uncles thinks my family is trash and is vocal about it. I love my husband, therefore I love his family even if they don't want me to!

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Sounds like a blessing in disguise. You don't want to be married to a guy whose mother or family hates you, and it's made worse if the guy doesn't stand up for you. If my MIL strikes a nerve with me, my husband actually tells her privately (and diplomatically) to back off. I watch my parents' behavior too. It has led to a very harmonious marriage and family life. 
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​I'm sorry you're going through this. You do deserve better.

Time to let go ??

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