july 14 i lost my identical twins after having invasive surgery trying to save my twins from Twin To Twin Transfusion Syndrome. I list both of my babies and survived by my 1 1/2 tear old son and fiance of 4 years. Doctor said i can retry in 5 months, December 14 would been 5 months! Shortly after Christmas my fiance told me we can try again.. Ive never been so ready in my life, weve had sex prolly everyday since he agreed to try again. Its too early to test yet but my family keeps saying i should wait, give my body and emotions time to heal. i say doc gave me the okay. so i turned to research it on my own. my first born was a ceaseran which happened 1 1/2 ago then i had laser surgery on july 12 followed by natural birth. opinions?? your story??