2 days late but now bleeding lots

Sorry if this is TMI but was wondering if anyone could help. AF was 2 days late :( had got my hopes up slightly. But I've had no pms, sore boobs or any of the 'normal' symptoms of a period- including no pain!! But this month it's heavier, more than I've had before. Just wondering if anyone had the same? Just looking for someone to talk to, don't feel like I can talk to my OH, he will think I'm being stupid-which I probably am :( but am also getting disheartened with not getting pregnant after about 8 months