​My bf does want a kid, but wants to do it "right" this time(he has a daughter from a previous relationship) meaning get married then a baby. Also, this medication I am taking I have to taper off slowly. If I got pregnant, it wouldn't harm the baby, I just wouldn't be able to lower my dose and continue to taper off bc then THAT effects the baby. He also doesn't want me on that medication pregnant, I don't blame him I don't want that either which is why the best thing is, some sort of BC.