TTC since 08/2013, AF due. 3/2/14, have symptoms

I'm in my 30s, got off the bcp back in May 2013, waited 3 months to really try and actively charting since Oct 2013.  Friends are getting pregnant within the first month of trying so I'm definitely feeling some baby envy.
​Testing this weekend, having some symptoms: Breast tenderness (more on the left then right and more so than usual), some twinges in the abdomen here and there and super vivid dreams (I was told this was a possible symptom). Trying my best to wait to test but tested last night (9dpo) and it was a BFN.
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 I've been regular all my life and cycles range from 26-28 days long.
​I'm so hoping this time is it!!