Baby mamma drama??

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:( ok so my boyfriend has a baby mamma and i just fill like crying when talking about this but I really need someone to talk to cause it makes me so sad to the point I get mad at him for no reason and I say to my self that I cannot do this cause I really do fill like that sometimes it hurts me that I will never be the first to have his baby  like she was his one night stand and she became pregnant but like idk how to explain this is anyone in this same situation??

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Totally get what you’re saying, going thru the same situation

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Thanks that really helped :) I do love his son a lot too I just sometimes wish it was me :/ but that's true I will be his first wife :) and Last thank you :))

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My husband has a daughter, and I'll never be the mother of his first child, but his daughter is so wonderful that even if I could go back and change his life so he never had that one night stand, I wouldn't. I can't change how you feel, and if this is such a big deal I think you need to reconsider your relationship with him. His situation can never be changed, but if this issue is important to you, then you can change your own situation.
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​If you truly do love him, though, you need to get over that issue, because it will never change. The only thing you need to do is be a loving step-mother to his child, and be the mother of his future children. That's pretty special itself, being the one he chose to have children with, and not the one he accidentally had a child with. :) At least, I feel pretty special about that in my situation.

Baby mamma drama??

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