If only I was like my mother.

Never thought I would think that! I'm fairly young and TTC our first. I've heard for years how my parents and grandparents conceived on the first try and they were both in their 30's.  Well we visited them yesterday and my cousin is pregnant now. Without so much as taking an opk or charting bbt. Isn't it supposed to be easy. My body is in it's "best" time for pregnancy. I guess I'm just frustrated and emotional. Does anyone else feel like the only one having to try in their family? I'm going to stuff my face with cookies while I wait for feedback. :(