Is my BF gay?

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So a little about us. I'm 23. He is 26.  We are definitely heading towards getting married - but can't shake the feeling he is gay. It's not just the little things. Like he is super neat. Shaved his legs (but he bikes). He takes like an hour to get ready when we go out. He has more hair gels and face creams than I do. He almost never initiates sex - but is fine when I want it. (Mostly missionary). 
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​I've asked him if he liked men. And he laughs and say no. But I just can't shake this feeling. 
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​What should I do? He is a really good guy....

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Have you ever heard of a metro-sexual?? It's a guy who grooms himself and takes extra care... Sorta a pretty boy.

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If you have doubts and questions make sure they are settled prior to marriage.  If you trust him, then trust in what he is saying to you.  The question is, can you live with him just as he is?.......

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My boyfriend is a serious cyclist, so his smooth legs helps shave minutes off his time. Every bit counts! Lucky for him, I prefer smooth legs and I love cycling. He wants to get me a Specialized Dulce soon. I told him I don't care for a huge carbon rock on my hand—a small ring would be perfect—however getting a carbon fiber bike so we can ride together would be incredibly romantic and keep us both in shape. :)​

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That sounds exactly like my babys dad! And i still dont know and i still think he is! When he decides to come out i wont be suprised lol he hardly ever went downtown and when he did he seemed scared sex was so basic i was wild i tried outfits tricks positions and he was just like whatever he'd complain to have frequent sex he took from 3:00-4:30 to get ready and had to wear a gucci belt or louie vouton or armani and he even had a lv bag and shared it with his (bestfriend) and this guy would call him any day time hour he anwsered he was there in a snap he had a gay guy co-sign for him and said he wouldnt except him to date me idk all around weird!

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None of that equates to gay. My husband spends more time then I do to get ready and he loves girly television but he's heterosexual. You should probably educate yourself on homosexuals. I know a ton of gay men who "act straight".

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Lol Hun, he does not sound gay. Not one bit. A lot of men are like that now. If he never ever wanted sex with you, then question it. But honestly he sounds straight, a guy who truly takes pride in himself.

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Is he more artistic? Plays an instrument? Cause usually artistic men are more feminine. My fiancé is like that and ppl talk about us. So what? Screw the haters. If you're in love, trust each other and fulfill each other's needs you will be fine. Don't over react sit back and enjoy the ride ;)

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If you are heading towards marriage but have doubts about his sexuality, you need to be honest with him and have a serious conversation with him about your concerns. Maybe not any easy thing to do but life is long and you don't want those doubts to follow you through your future together. Best of luck x

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sex is a big issue in relationships, especially if you're married. most guys pretending to be straight don't allow it to get to the marriage stage. like the other person said, he probably has a low sex drive. it's more common than you think. you should tell him that it bothers you. you want to feel wanted in your relationship and that's how women should feel! you need to fix your sex issue before progressing the relationship

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He cares about his appereance and he probably just has low sex drive, I wouldn't worry about it. If you aren't sure then maybe it's not him and you're putting too much thought into it

Is my BF gay?

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