Does this make me a horrible person?

Question

Last month after an unplanned pregnancy ending in a misscarrige at 6 wks today I found out my bestfriend is pregnant & I am almost mad at her for even telling me , not that I'm not happy for her. Even with my pregnancy being unplanned I still was so excited to be a mommy and haves baby , I just don't understand how the odds could just be so against me , with having a miscarrige and then fiding out my bestfriend is pregnant. :(

Answer

The same happen to me. The second time I had a miscarriage last August I discovered that everybody around me was getting pregnant. (Not a successful story yet). 
​Actually I hated them and did not want to see them. And my freinds have different types of reactions, some were very respectful and asking me if I wanted to know if I wanted to go to baby shower, others were very pushing and ask me every month if NOW I was pregnant... So I had to make a choice and choose what it hurt less. 
​I stop seeing people that I didn't want to see and continue seing the ones that help me feel better. (None of these were my BF) 
​It is hard not feel depressed, angry and that everything is unfair. But as sad as it is, life continues and you must too, at your own time.

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Put the shoe on the other foot, if ur friend miscarried then u discovered u were pregnant...How wud u tell her and when? U wud have to eventually. She wouldn't have gotten pregnant just to hurt u, bad timing of course! But try to be happy that potentially u and ur friend will share the pregnancy experience and have children a very simalar age.Thats if ur still TTC it normal to feel angry and sad, just make sure it's not aimed in the wrong

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It's a hard situation but remember it's not your fault or her fault you miscarried so don't be angry at yourself or your friend. As much as I struggle I always try my best to be happy for people who become pregnant because when my time comes I will want people to be happy for me.

Does this make me a horrible person?

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