Honestly ...

I see so many young VERY young girls on glow TTC . And it baffles my mind . I'm not judging anyone but I will openly share my story with you girls . I got pregnant at a very young age I was only 17 ! NOT TRYING . But In my honest stupidity not doing anything to be cautious about the sex either. I hate to break it to some if you girls but the reality of the situation is most of you are still in high school , and in most situations your "high school sweet heart" is not the man you will end up marrying and having a family with . I've been in your shoes before I was 16 and so "deeply in love" with my boy friend at the time .. Eventually things in that relationship came to a hault .. And it wasn't until later when I met the man I'm now married too that I was greatful that,  that relationship ended . I could not imagine having a baby with him .. When you have a baby you're in a life time commitment with someone . Looking back my high school sweet heart isn't even my type .. We are very different people and since we've both matured and grown into independent people there is no way we could make a marriage or even a relationship work . When I look at my husband i see a wonderful father and my best friend and I see that even though god gave me my son young this was all part of his plan , I don't regret having my son young I wouldn't trade him for the world but I wish that we would have waited so we could have been more stable and better off so it would better his life . We're only 19 now and have came such a long way since we were 17 . We're married , have our own house , my husband has a wonderful job and I'm lucky enough to be a stay at home mom with our handsome 9month old little boy, but I still see so many things that I wish we could have done to better prepare ourselves for a family at such a young age . So just ask yourself are you truly ready to be a mom , and ask yourself why you want a baby . Yes they're cute and gods greatest blessing upon your lives but they're a handful . Unless you feel 100% sure that you're ready to be parents .. Wait untill you are .