Becoming discouraged

So not only did I find out that one girl is pregnant but two .... Then discovered some more that came across my news feed on Facebook !!! I'm and just losing hope and I am angry bc people tell me it'll happen when it's supposed to and I just wanna say u know it was supposed to happen bc I was pregnant but it was cruelly taken from me at 8 wks ... I had never felt such a bond with someone I had never even met ... I loved that baby even when it didn't even exist yet .... I am just so discouraged we have been trying 7 long months ... How do u girls so this that have been trying longer ?!? U girls are troopers !!!! Babydust to all !