Need to chat :(

Feeling down in the dumps this week. Was going away on Tuesday down to my mums caravan with my nieces and nephews as it was my birthday and just before I left me n other half where supposed to bd well just literally before it happens his mate called round so I got up and packed my bag to go. Told other half I wasn't happy about it and we planned to when I got bk well I'm due home tomorrow but have pulled a muscle in my shoulder but I have a high sex drive and my other Half is refusing to bd with me as il be in pain and for confidence issues with him we can only bd with me on top. What do I do? Do I fake feeling better and pain free and bd in the hope it's not sore or do I admit it's sore and chance my luck anyway :/