Why do some have it so easy...

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Is it just me or is everyone around you pregnant! I can't walk down the street without seeing a pregnant person. It feels like every other day there's an announcement on Facebook or a friend texting with their good news! 
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​I would never be resentful of any family/friends or anyone that's pregnant as I wouldn't wish how I feel on anyone else but it doesn't stop it being so hard! 
​Every time I decided to just get on with it and carry on focusing positively on trying yet someone else tells me their pregnant! 
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​No one I know has has to live their life by a calendar, checking dates and living every month by when their due on! No one has had to use apps or ovulation kits to help them along! 
​Just feels like everyone else lays down once and gets what they want! 
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​Just hate feeling like it's never going to happen! 
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​*** BAD DAY ALERT ***

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I've been tryin for three years for number 1 and all my bfs cousin is taking about is her prob and thinkin she is preggo this would be her second . I just get up an leave , three years with his low motility rate takes a toll on you !

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I might be saying this out of jealousy but most of the people that I know that have absolutely no business having kids have gotten pregnant easily over and over again and are horrible parents.

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I feel the same way and at the same time I'm scared to get Prego because my bf is also been trying for about a year and it makes me nervous to get Prego first if I do she's a very secretly jealous person :( and me and my hubby had a mc 3 years ago and just now started trying again the past 6 months. When I told her I had a ob appointment she was freakn out that we were trying :( but I need to keep telling myself to make myself and the hubby happy not friends

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25 years ago but my mom lost an ovary because it was completely consumed by cysts. So she decided to ttc (with my dad) and got pregnant the 2nd month trying! then had 2 more kids after that!

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I feel the same way i got pregnant first and after my miscarriage my friend gets pregnant after 3 months .

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I hear you! Dh and I have been ttc #2 for 7 months already. It took us a year and a half to get our son. One of my best friends got pregnant the week she went off bc. I hate going to the mall because all I see are pregnant bellies!

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It definitely helps that we can vent to each other and not be afraid of being judged!!

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This is exactly how I feel! And I work in a large organisation - 750 employees. I sit in an office with around 30 people. 4 of whom are pregnant. 
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​Everywhere I go, I see bumps and babies! I can't handle it. 
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​I feel like I'm never going to get pregnant and everyone around me looks at their partner and gets pregnant! Depressing!

​I started having PMS symptoms today, so I have a feeling AF is on her way and it may be the PMS depression talking ?

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I know how you feel. Not only is my twin sister prego after trying for just four months my sister in law is also prego after not even trying. so even though i am so happy for both of them im like surrounded by prego ladies when all i want is what they have so trust me i know!

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Shelly, I TOTALLY understand & feel similar! My sister is pregnant now & she got pregnant within a few months of trying. Two of our friends are pregnant. I stay off Facebook as much as possible. I also work to BE and feel prepared when I need to be around anyone pregnant! I hope that your day gets better!!!

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