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So I really like this guy and we have been talking for like 3 months now and I know he really wants to have sex but idk if I should make it clear that I'm not comfortable doing it till we are in a realationship, but I'm also scared if I say that he might get angry. I mean I do want to have sex with him but that not all I want it to be.

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Do not have sex with him now. only when you become his girlfriend! Because after the sex he probably will dispense you... guys...

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He is not the right guy if he gives you an untimatum! The same thing happened to me and the guy I was talking to got angry threatened to stop talking to me at that point to me it wasn't worth it. No relationship is worth it if you can't feel comfortable with something as important as sex! I don't regret at all not continuing to talk to him because that was all he wanted. He has slept with so many girls just to sleep with them, and I am proud that I am not one of them!

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Do NOT have sex if you don't feel ready. You have every right to say no and if he doesn't understand do you really want some one like that around? You think you'll have sex with him and suddenly he will be more understanding? Don't do it. Wait until you are ready and stand up for yourself!

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If you are not comfortable yet then he needs to understand that. If he doesn't, then he isn't the right one for you. I say tell him what you are feeling and if he really cares about you he will wait until you're comfortable. If not, dump him.

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