Rape fantasy?

Question

As a child I was sexually abused several times, including being tied up and raped. Now I still have reprecussions of it, it has greatly effected my life, yet I have a BDSM fetish which includes bondage and rape fantasy. I don't usually share about the rape fantasy, as I feel like it sounds totally wrong since I have been raped. I know this sounds confusing, but is it normal/okay?

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It could also be a way that your mind is taking control of what happened. In BDSM it is entirely consensual and you are basically in charge because nothing is allowed to happen that you don't agree to beforehand. That can be incredibly empowering to someone who has had their power taken away elsewhere.

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Ive never been raped but i do get fanticys about it which is normal i think..

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I was raped and had troubles telling any man no after that. my husband was also raped bug we both for what ever reason enjoy rough sex that some would say looks like rape.

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I have been raped before and It happened alot to the point where I would pretend I was someplace else or somewhere else and now that I'm older I crave the choking and being forced by my SO. I guess everyone is different

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It's very normal. Despite my horrible history(I've never talked about it with anyone but one person) I still enjoy the bdsm scene and rape play included.

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It is a touchy topic I agree. In Romania rape is a top crime next to human trafficking. My man and I do this. It's normal, I believe. I sadly have experience with rape in my family. I'm sorry it happened to you.

Rape fantasy?

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