I'm so sad! I could just bawl my eyes out!

Ok well I am 15 weeks pregnant. My husband and I were trying for our 2nd for 9 months. He was so excited when we found out. We have told everyone but his grandparents. They are very wealthy and are snooty. They feel as though you have to be a millionaire to afford two children. My MIL was supposed to tell them but won't so they won't be mad at her. My husband won't let me announce to social media until they are told. I got baby photograph announcements made and now I can't do anything. I'm so mad and sad. I mean damn it's my baby I'm carrying. Sorry I just had to vent.