how many BFPs for woman who obsessed?

Jessie

So I always hear, "stop stressing. stop obsessing. stress can harm your chances of conceiving. once you stop focusing so much, it will happen... blah blah blah"

But I see so many BFPs on here from woman who I guarantee obsessed as much as me, if not more.

So, I think it would be encouraging to hear from ladies who got BFPs who were actively ttc.