Thin shaming?

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Everyone is about fat shaming and that chubby girls get the worst of it, but being a naturally thin girl I am very tired of hearing about how thin girls are not real women because they don't have big hips and boobs and about how guys love curves, thin shaming happens just as often if not more often then fat shaming.

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Yes!!! I can completely relate to this post. People telling me I should eat more, and get some meat on my bones, tell me I'm built like a 10 year old kid. Etc..  I've even had a guy talk to me online and when we met in person he told me I was pretty but he liked girls with more butt and boobs. And other guys that didn't like me because I wasn't built like Nikki Minaj or some other thick artists. And my family threw around hurtful sayings to supposedly "joking" at times. I've always been afraid to wear skirts and dresses all my life until I met my husband he told me I was beautiful and that being thin is attractive. People say "thin shaming" doesn't exist but it does and it's has been in full effect these past few years. But to keep the confidence up is rewarding big or small. Love your shape and size because at the end of the day there's always someone who wishes their body could be like yours one day. Now I wear dresses and skirts so much I barely wear pants. Lol

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Agree, we totally need to stop body-bashing because you never really know how you're affecting someone's self-esteem (even if they appear to be objectively attractive or thin!).

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Im a bigger girl and I hate both fat shaming and thin shaming. Its just horrible! If they aren't hurting you, then leave them alone!

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Like this...

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Oh my god i understand this so much. I think as someone who's naturally thin, so much stuff gets thrown at us. We get blamed for making people feel bad, we get accused of making up challenges that "fat shame" but the thing is, we get told were not pretty or hot, but that it is ugly or not feminine. I don't understand it at all and it hurts me a lot

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I remember in junior high people would constantly make fun of me because I was skinny and had no boobs! I used to get asked things like "Do you ever eat anything" and "are you sure you're not anorexic" all the time. It really does hurt your self esteem...my body has changed a lot since, thank God, but JH would have been a lot easier if I hadn't been "thin shamed".

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Idk about more often but it def does happen.

Thin shaming?

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