Would you be mad?

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My boyfriend liked this girls picture about 3 months ago and I saw it just now, and her boobs are just out there.  If you would be mad, how would you fix this problem. I need some words of advice because I'm hurt.

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Honestly at 16, a male is going to be attracted to boobs . What man isn't ? At 16 , commitment is a big deal . Even more so at such a young age . Personally I would be offended if DH like another girls picture , but DH is completely "out of the game" so to speak when it comes to social media because he dosent have time for it ! I'm not saying he won't see another woman and think she pretty , but he would never publicly announce it . He might say something to me , but he's never said anything lustful about another woman .

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I'd be pissed. I'd snoop through all his online accounts to make sure there isn't more and then I'd confront him with a few choice words. Lol. My fiancé would never do that though. I know he will see other attractive people and notice it but would it be okay to go specifically looking through their photos and letting them know you're attracted to them?! Fuck that. Lol.

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I understand that an attractive woman is an attractive woman, but publicly 'liking' a photo is disrespectful to you. 
​I'm not naive enough to think my partner would never look and appreciate certain photos, but we have enough respect for him to keep it to himself. So I guess I'd just ask him to not be so open about it next time.

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yea id be ticked off if tht happen to me my bf knows how I react to things like tht and he knows im nt goin to take it .

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So he liked a picture 3 months ago? What's wrong with that? Regardless of whether he "liked" a picture, he still sees them and still enjoys them. Boobs are boobs. We are human and it's nearly impossible not to look. There's no harm in looking as long as no actions are actually taken to move from just looking/admiring to actual cheating.

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Insecurity is one of the biggest turn offs. Do you really wanna argue abt a picture? From 3 months ago?

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Just because you're in a committed relationship doesn't mean attraction toward other people is going to turn off. Are you jealous that he thinks another woman is attractive? Or that he expressed it publicly? If you go through life thinking your SO is only attracted to you, you may end up being hurt over and over again. My DH and I are open with each other about other people we find attractive, yet are still loyal to each other. Honesty is a fantastic thing!

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Would he be mad if you liked some dudes picture with his hot sexy almost naked body was out and about with his thang almost showing? I think he'd say something to you hahah

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I wouldn't get to worked up, when I see nice looking man and I comment or like on it doesn't mean I want him instead because  I have a perfectly great boyfriend who !hello!! Is the one I'm going to bed with, and kissing goodnight.

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Honestly. They're boobs. Who cares? I'm straight and I think boobs are awesome. It's just a picture. Guys like boobs, they can't help it. Why would I be jealous of a picture he liked from that long ago? Stop being clingy.

Would you be mad?

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