Trying to conceive? Need friends!:)

Hi everyone! So long story short my husband is active duty navy and we recently moved to California due to a change of duty stations. We started trying to conceive 3 months ago and no such luck. I haven't been on birth   control in over two years. I am a regular smoker (trying so hard to quit) but with this move ive been really stressed! I ovulate tomorrow, we've frequently had sex the last 5 days and today i even held my legs in the air ( i heard it helps the sperm travel easier) i also noticed my CM was white and creamy, doesn't that make it impossible for sperm to travel? Sorry a lot of information, any answers help! Good luck to all of you TTC!?