All of my contacts on Glow??!

SF • We have a 5 yo and it took about 4 years of trying for our 2nd, due in July.
WTF glow??? I was just posting a personal question in here and found it to be out of line to ask me if I want to share my message with my contact list (friends, family, my landlord, the parents of students who I teach, everyone in my contact list?)!! 
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