Does it hurt when u have sex for the first time???

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Im 15 and not really looking to have sex anytime soon but I was just curious if it hurts when you have sex for the first time??

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It didn't hurt me but I had toys and was masterbating (17). I would suggest learning to "take care" of yourself before doing it with someone else. Sex in early years isn't fun. Most boys have no idea what they're doing.  Plus if you're the one doing it, it won't hurt.

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For me it was awful. I was in the front seat of a truck and not turned on what so ever. Luckily he was on the smaller side and I didn't bleed but it was very unpleasant. It took several times having sex and several partners later to actually pop my cherry! DH actually popped it 8 years later!

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I was drunk my first time, but he still took over an hour to build me up and it hurt so much I didn't enjoy it at all. It hurt a lot the second time too, even more so actually because I wasn't drunk. Lol. I didn't bleed much though, just a little bright pink spotting. :) good luck for when you decide to! I waited till I was 17 and I wish I'd waited till marriage but I'm happy that I lost it to someone I cared about and not to someone who never mattered!!

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It honestly shouldn't hurt at all. Just make sure you're relaxed and really ready for sex, and then I would reccommend fusing fingers to get used to the feeling. Use lube when he goes in, and go slow until you're used to the feeling. 
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​The hymen, or "cherry" is a myth. You should not have any really painful experiences. If you are, he's doing something wrong. (If the hymen really needed to be "popped", how could you get your period if you haven't had sex?)

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For me and my gfs first time it hurt her alittle but not bad just use fingers and stuff to loosen it up

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Yes it does

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Yess, I was really tight because I never used tampons or did anything to myself. i didnt bleed because of the ripped hymen or "popped cherry" until about the 15th time I had sex, surprisingly though

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For me it hurt the first few times and I also found quite a bit of blood in my undies until about the fifth or sixth time. After the first few times though it isn't painful anymore, more irritating than anything but you get used to it and start enjoying it more the more you have sex :) Just make sure it's with someone that you feel like you can trust.

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Just a lil bit but not really. But I guess it depends on ur pain tolerance. Mine is really high.

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It hurt the first few times. Gets better after that.

Does it hurt when u have sex for the first time???

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