Beginner sex tips?

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My boyfriend and I are celebrating our 1st anniversary in a week and I'm expecting we will have sex that day. I've only done it with him a few times because it hurts so badly. He's my first and I trust him, so I want to try to do more then just lay on my back in pain. Do you have any tips to spice it up a bit, even if it's still hurting badly?

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Sex kinda takes time to get good at it. You learn your body more. I didnt start getting ontop untill I had been having sex for almost 2 years. Not saying to be like that or anything but now im practically a pro. You just gain experience as time goes on.

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My SO is only my second sex partner so I'm a bit of a beginner too but definitely cowgirl for the pain or try a lot of foreplay before sex just to know that you're both ready and don't be tense or scared just relax it's a huge difference trust me 
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​You can try reverse cowgirl it's a bit easier to me than regular cowgirl and if he's a but type of guy it'll drive him crazy and you'll still be able to control how deep or how fast the pace is
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​Also maybe act out a fantasy it maybe easier for you to relax when you're pretending to be someone else a major confidence booster sometimes 
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​Just try different things with your SO and see what feels good and what doesn't you get to try new things and be adventurous with the guy you love, what's the worst that could happen?

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Make sure you have him warm you up, like as in finger you first, so it won't hurt as bad. Also try sitting on him (cowgirl position) so you can ease onto it at your own paste and get more comfortable. After that it shouldn't hurt

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Try to relax yourself before having sex, dont think about pain, that may be why your having pain because your tense. Foreplay is brilliant and maybe even try some lube

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Shower with lights off and hot water. You can have the door cracked for some light. Wash each other. Good stuff ;)

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You could try laying on your side and he as well and kind of "spoon sex" it's comfortable and sensual. It'll get easier over time don't worry. Lots of lubricant as well! And relax!!! Enjoy it!

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one word: lube!! just take it slow, may be awkward at first but trust me it gets better !!!

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now they make glow in the dark lubricant ;)

Beginner sex tips?

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