Nagging rant.

I<3Dolphins • I`m a 23 year old Military wife. My husband and I have been TTC #1 since November 13, 2013. ✨
I love my husband more than anything in the world! But I nag him. When he leaves the toilet seat up, I remind him to put it down, when he cooks, I remind him to clean up after himself, he leaves his shoes wherever, he doesn't put things back where he gets them, he still doesn't do these things even when I repeatedly ask him too. I feel like I'm nagging him all the time. 
​Anyways, my question is, should I just ignore these things and do it myself? should I keep nagging? 
​I don't like nagging him, how can I get him to do these things without constantly nagging?