Tired of peeing on OPK's

Taking ovulation tests are really stressing me out. Will I ovulate today? If not today, tomorrow? These are the constant questions I ask myself during my possible ovulation time. I have irregular periods that I believe are finally trying to straighten out after a miscarriage. It's just frustrating not knowing if I'm going to ovulate each month or not. I'm to the point to where I don't even want to take opk's anymore, but if I don't then I won't know if I ovulated. My husband has told me to stop taking them and to just go with the flow, but I can't do that. I feel like there's no winning for me.