Why do I hate sex?

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The only thing I can think of is my own self esteem. I used to be fairly big, lost 120 lbs and gravity took it's toll. My husband thinks it's him, and it's not-he is gorgeous. Has anyone experienced this? Here's a before and after and a photo of the hubs. ​​

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Holy hell ma'am. Your husband is one lucky guy. Your lookin good!

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It could be self esteem! But holy smokes you look gorgeous!! I'm not being weird or anything lol but your body looks great! Congrats and good work!

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I feel the exact same way that you do Candace! Not sure what the problem is but it's like when the hubby wants it, I refuse every time because, I hate doing it. It's not painful or nothing, I just dread the whole process. Now atleast you know that someone else out here is in your shoes! I was thinking I was the only one... *sigh ?

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It may be a hormonal imbalance definitely talk to a dr maybe they can check yr estrogen levels.  I would also suggest talking to a counselor. It is a major accomplishment to lose so much weight (and you look absolutely gorgeous btw) but it's sometimes hard for yr mind to get on board with your physical appearance bc you have been dealing with insecurities for longer than you have been living with this new found accomplishment.   You don't want to neglect your husband or your marriage. It may cause him to feel rejected and unwanted. You don't want someone else to come along who is willing to give him affection and attention that you are reusing to give. Seek help for yrself and your marriage well being.

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OH MY GOSH YOURE STUNNING! How did you lose the weight? :3 just curious.

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If your worried about gravity taking it's toll then go to ann summers but some sexy lingerie and wear that while having sex! You look gorgeous by the way

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I used to hate sex too. I would make myself have sex because I was scared if I didn't give sex to my husband he would find it somewhere else. Then we got pregnant and I LOVE sex again. That's all we ever want to do now. Hopefully I got my fix? Idk. But after my baby I hope it stays this way. I am much happier now.

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I've also lost both of my grandparents within 3 months if wait her about 2 years ago. I was/am devastated. I think I may need therapy for some things and the rest will follow.

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Are you on birth control? Anytime I'm on birth control I want nothing to do with my dh. It's all hormones. It's like you said I'm attracted to him, I even enjoy once were going good I just have NO drive to get it started.

Why do I hate sex?

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