Second baby ttc

Hi all! I'm new to Glow and this is my first post. My husband and I have been ttc since January 1st with no luck yet. Our first daughter was conceived after two spontaneous bouts of unprotected sex (not exactly planned, but we were prepared to have a baby if it happened). I was on birth control for two years, up until 12/31/2013. Have any of you second time moms had a much harder time conceiving the second baby? I'm trying not to get my hopes up but I'm finding every month with a BFN is a devistating blow. As silly as this sounds (especially to you sweet Mommas to be who have been ttc way longer than 7 months), I just assumed since it was "easy" the first time, It would be easy this time too. I'm also new to temp monitoring and religiously tracking ovulation. (Before this month, I had a very basic ovulation tracking app, and made sure to have lots of sex during fertile days.) Any advice? Thanks in advance!