My first post- I don't want to think about it everyday

My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years in November. Since being married and even before that I wasn't on BC. Anyway this last year we really decided to start trying to concieve I was hoping it happen without trying but nope. After month after month nothing I've been throught so many emotional roller coasters. At this point,  still trusting God but I just don't want to think about it everyday. I hear so many stories about once you stop focusing on it your get prego. Well how in the world do you do that when you desire  to have something so bad?